project 1- 30 Minutes is all it takes

Create some free time when he gets home.

The Project:
Focus on your husbands transitional 30 min today. Would he like to be left alone to rest and rejuvenate, or does he want some undivided attention from you? The point is to let your Husband know you value what he does out in the world, and that he has a safe, loving place to come home to and get refreshed at the end of the day.

My Plan For The Day :

My plan for the day is simple. Since at the moment my husband is laid off i will be focusing on a rejuvenating time for him to take to him self away from the children to read the bible or play some madden which ever he chooses. This will be so that he doesnt feel like he has a task at home that he might have to complete. This time is for him and only him!

His Reaction/My Results:

The Husband Project - the new start

The Husband Project , 21 Days of Loving Your Man On Purpose and With a Plan. I have mentioned this book so many times and have even started it as well. I always seem to quit half way through feeling like it is not needed.

Well this time its different. I am not doing it out of a need of necessity but because i simply want to. Each day for the next 21 days i will be doing a project out of this book. Starting first thing in the morning i will love my husband with a plan and a want and complete this very simple challenge.  

trying

i am trying. i am praying. i know things arent easy and i know they all come in time and when they are truly needed. so i am trying to wait and i am hopeful when it will.

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my struggle - trying to not try so hard

church, i have gone back. it has been a mixture of happiness and feelings of how much more easier it would be to just stay home. the children are having a blast {well the older ones} and my hubs and father love it as well. i love it dont get me wrong but it still just isnt what i think i need. the first week back it went great. the kids {all 4} went into there rooms had fun and played. no tears. the fellowship was simply wonderful. the second week, while the fellowship was still ok the babies didnt want to be there. they came in with us which made it not as enjoyable as with them in their rooms. i was unable to worship due to the music being to loud for them. then last week. well it just was no fun. i missed half the message for the same reasons as the week before and it was just not as pleasant. i am hoping that it will i need it to. i need fellowship i need the time i need the messages.  i just need them

back on track ... starting with the husband project

i love this book and the projects it has in side. so it i time to get back to it. i will be starting out with the husband project. i mean he deserves a little pampering to!!!

project 1- 30 mins is all it takes

create some free time when he gets home

the plan-the kids are always so excited when daddy gets home. i mean even the dog jumps around. so today when he gets home i will take the kids into the big girls room to read a story to them. therefore E can grab a shower and relax for a min. he might get done before he reaches 30 mins but it ill be the chance to relax that counts.

update on the children

while this is a blog about me, they are me. so i wanted to update a picture instead of updating them each. they ave gotten so big since i have been posting here. my youngest the boy cristofer, well he is almost one. so here they are.

when is enough enough ???

so before i moved here to Vegas, i have always known god. i have always wanted to be in his love and love my god. i never found a a church nor a fellowship that i felt i belonged to. i went to church with my life long best friend Sarah. her family opened me up to a wonderful fellowship and love for god. the church though that we went to just wasn't for me.

when i got to Vegas i met a friend. she is a christian and thought that i would love the church she went to. we tried it out it was great and now i am member, my hubs an i both got baptized and we loved the fellowship. her family and her stop going our friendship fell apart because we are two different types of women and the fellowship changed once location of the church changed.

so i will get to the point. i have been trying to be a "good christian" . i have been trying to bring her back to what she brought me to, trying to meet on common grounds, have bible studies what ever. and i guess its just a shove in the heart when the person who open those doors for you shut their own. when is enough enough? when do i no longer have to try ?? when is it enough?? because all the stunts in tat relationship make me feel like i may have not really learned anything. that maybe the person who brought me there lost their way do to me. i just don't know when enough is enough.